If you’re Looking for a Virgin try Online Christian Dating
Online Christian Dating
So , You say you don’t meet people through going to church, which I can believe, but there are Christian dating sites and social groups. Google “Christian dating” and if your lucky or God has big plans for you you can find a Virgin in an Online Christian site.
I have subscribed to a Christian Dating Telegraph and I am constantly finding that women who select/contact me and women who I select are not interested in taking the contact any futher and what’s more even though they have gone to the trouble of putting all their details on to the site, downloading pictures of themselves, selecting the ladies they like into their Wink or Favourties section, when I contact them they always write back saying they have no subscription to that dating site.
If they do have a subscription, then even when they have contacted me first or selected me or sent me their phone no. they then don’t reply or don’t pick up their phone. Its really not worth bothering. My picture is quite nice and I think they just like looking at it regularly which doesn’t cost them anything financially or in terms of commitment. I now ask them point blank why, but haven’t got any honest feedback yet but am interested as it seems to be a conundrum currently which didn’t exist a few years ago when I initially took up internet dating. It was a bit weird then, yes, but at least it was easy enough to make contact, now it isn’t.
As someone who doesn’t drink and was traveling loads for work, the normal “Christian Dating ” venues were somewhat of a loss when I was on the market some 10-odd years ago. Like the subject of the story, I used several dating sites and ended-up meeting my now wife on match.com in the States. I agree for the most part with Leslie’s observations, particularly in regards to the tone of one’s writing.
If you sound depressed, desparate or burdened with “issues,” this will percolate through your writing and drive potential matches away in a heartbeat. To me, the advantage of Online Christian Dating is the fact that if you write well and take the time to wind a story about who your are, what your likes and dislikes are, and make these threads interesting, you will be pleasantly surprised by the response, particularly if you are man in pursuit of woman.
Women enjoy imagination and fantasy versus the visual stimuli that men trend towards, so if you can appeal to your potential mate’s sense of wonderment and thought, you will be far along the road to at least finding common ground. The main advantage of a written form of courtship is that one is not put off by another’s looks or other physical attraction (or lack thereof), and instead gets to know the real person. I would encourage the fellow in this story to practice his prose, work on several different styles of writing (depending on his chosen correspondent), and just be himself.